How do you do?? #handshake!

How do you do??

Just like anybody else had dreams, wishes, visions and passions, so did she. She envisioned a lot of things like happiness, success & love. Speaking of which, once upon a time, she even believed that everyone deserves to love and to be loved right back just as much, if not more. If anybody could love, that would be her.

Let me tell you a story first, some years ago, a woman gave birth to a beautiful, brown eyed baby girl. she had the most stunning flawless skin i had never seen and each time she smiled, her cute chicks just bubbled and her beautiful brown eyes would just light up. she was the cutest thing creation had ever seen. 

" My father used to say every time he saw my face, its like the earth stood still for a second and just like that, he swore music would start playing!" she told me.

I don't blame him, the father i mean. sometimes silence cold be so loud yet so calming and amazingly beautiful to listen, especially if its because of love. her beauty would literally calm the storm and settle the roaring sea AND her sweetness would steal your entire being and consume your wholeness. she had eyes filled with life and love and all you could do looking into them was believe, dream, envision, dream and fall in love over and over again. i guess it goes without saying, she was infectious!! 

You have all heard them stories growing; up about beautiful princess who stopped the sun and the moon. whose beauty controlled nature and and the universe. i mean i bet one of your bed time stories book did tell you something like that; or less....this woman defined beauty in all ways possible.

Great looks don't guarantee a good life of the city and don't even say at least all your dreams will come true, you visions come to pass, your passion a reality and your love life or life as a hole a beauty like you now do they? (at least not in Hollywood!) however i still wanna believe that a girl can dream; besides they say hope springs eternal! so she grew up, lived, loved, hated, saw, cursed, blessed, prayed...stopped, suffered, cried, smiled here and there,believed,questioned, hoped and hoped and hoped, gave up, re-lived.... and through it all she grew strength  courage, wisdom,understanding, brilliance, patience, faith and most importantly she learned how to love again!!

" its amazing the thing you can learn, see different and appreciate out of a bad situation when all you have your whole live is BAD SITUATIONS!" she said softly.

we complain mostly other than fix, we judge other than understand  we curse other than bless, we don't care other than care, we condemn other than give second chances, we speak other than listen and we hate other than love. its what we learn from the environment around us, for the people around us, our parents  friends and mostly form the circumstances we find our selves in, the situations we face and the experiences we go through. quite often they teach us how to react not how to deal, how to deflect and not reflect and how to hide, not how to express. we find ourselves defending our actions from OURSELVES 'cause immediately the situation is so confusing and all of a sudden you are both the judge and the jury!

But if you take time, reflect on all that happened, deal with it by expressing ones's feelings and listening to others, then that's when LEARNING begins, then passion to know more overtakes and there follows answers to all your questions and hence KNOWLEDGE and eventually WISDOM. still out of a series of bad situations. this is called channeling negative energy into positive energy, or something... i think!  (lol) it is not a skill, its a process, its a journey and it is not easy at all!

In any case, you might be thinking; " why tell me all that?"

well, she is new to you, you dont know her, she dont know you.she is a woman of principles and values, pays attention to details, listens and learns, loves and cares, has goods and faults and most importantly she is HUMAN! she has been to hell and back but made to the other side with a million scratches but alive and even stronger, however she has has no regrets ' cause all that, all that she has been through have mad her who she is today and whom that is decides whom she will be tomorrow and so on and so on and.... and that is A WOMAN OF VIRTUE!!! 

So; in the matter of politeness and the fact that you haven't met before, please let me introduce you to HER:

                        "How Do You Do??"

By: Bon-Bav Bafazini